I've always realized there are positive people and negative people. I always knew I couldn't stand people who are always negative. people who always want to complain about EVERYTHING, even if it doesn't involve their life.
I cant stand this!
I recently came to even more of a realization that these negative people are just haters. everything is bad and everything is out to get them.
like who cares.
live your life dude!
most people have social media right? well if your reading this you probably have social media. ha. but people get bored. people are trying to promote businesses and some people are just plain out creative and start huge things. choose your poison right? between beach body, essential oils, mom blogs, politics and musicians there are millions of things to watch, see and repost.
Have you ever noticed there is a simple mom blog maybe about how great playdates are for her and her kids, and then a week later someone else posts a blog about how playdates are bad for your kids... ALWAYS their is someone who wants to contradict or dislike someone else's posts.
The reason for todays haters gunna hate thought was the Facebook #loveyourspousechallenge. What seemed to be a fun way to publicly announce your love for your spouse slowly turned into a haters thing. if you were participating in the challenge "you were probably a fake person"
I mean think about it, anyone who is married or in a long term relationship knows its not easy to love your spouse everyday. so that's why this was a "challenge" everyday for a week you were encouraged to find a new picture (or old) and tell a story of how much you love your spouse. this was a fun way to show your spouse you love them and possibly help rekindle some of the things in your life together that may have burnt out little.
Negative people and people who are just always out to argue or be against whatever your against is just plain and simple, draining! its actually scientifically proven that you are either a negative thinker or a positive thinker. whichever one you are, you have to work really hard at being the other.
so from now on I'm going to work really hard at staying positive and helping negative thinkers to view it from a positive view point.
stay positive people, stay positive.
I am a mommy of 2 little boys and a wife of 1 amazing husband! I love natural living and essential oils. Follow my journey here while I navigate life and make fun stuff with Oils!